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A deep dive into why all women avoid you: even if you think you’re amazing

I’m going to be harsh here, because it might actually help

Madelaine Lucy Hanson
6 min readJun 11, 2024

If every single woman avoids and rejects you, in person, on dating apps, online, in the street, and at work: Occam’s razor suggests that the problem is actually you. Sure, this might feel unfair or unjustified, but it means that all women have the same visceral reaction to you: irrespective of their tastes, preferences, wants, status, attractiveness, income, socialisation, or culture. Many involuntarily celibate men tell me on here that they don’t understand it: they think they have good jobs, self-identify as kind and intelligent, and don’t think they are so hideous that they could audition for Quasimodo.

Here, I’m afraid I’ve got bad news for you: women, in general, have a sixth sense on sussing out whether you’re a potential threat to them: even if you’re not standing there with the zip ties and the chainsaw. And if you’re giving off strong Elliot Rodger vibes, it doesn’t matter how cute you are, who your daddy is, or what car you drive.

In 100% of situations where my friends have told me about a man being ‘creepy’, he has done one or more of the below.

Women are much more socially intelligent and wise to manipulation than you have been taught

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Madelaine Lucy Hanson
Madelaine Lucy Hanson

Written by Madelaine Lucy Hanson

The girl who still knows everything. Opinions entirely my own. Usually. Enquiries: madelaine@madelainehanson.co.uk

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