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Are you a Long Term Long Distance Low Commitment Casual Girlfriend?
You need to block him, sis
Reader, I blocked him.
Not because I hated him. Not because I wanted to teach him a lesson. Not even because I was hurting at being used (I was, though, duh). But because I realised I wanted to give myself a fighting chance at letting go for good, forever, and immediately. And you have to, too.
I get it. You want them to text you, so badly. To tell you that they care about you, that they still want you, that actually, they made a mistake. You want to wake up and smile at ‘good morning…I miss you xx’ and feel all that sadness and abandonment dissipate at once. Except: that’s not going to happen. And you’re just staring at your phone. And feeling more abandoned because, they haven’t texted you. Because they could, and they…haven’t. And don’t want to.
And I need you to accept this right now: you are hurting yourself by not blocking them. Even if you like them. Even if you want to be friends at some point. Even if you really, really want that make up text. Because them using you for sex isn’t ever going to heal that wound.
Because you are not going to move on from this feeling of abandonment, rejection, and loss while you haven’t accepted that it is over. You aren’t going to let go of the…
