Aspergers is no excuse for being a bully, falsely tagging mental disorders onto women for simply taking selfies, being transphobic, using ‘transgender' as an insult and disparaging people facing eating disorders. Any other person with Aspergers syndrome would think you were a terrible person.
If you feel upset at being called out for your abusive behaviour, see a therapist and get them to see how they can help you reform your behaviour and make you more likeable to the general community. If multiple (at least 30) people say you are being abusive, you are the problem. I suggest a specialist in empathy and compassion. My friend did one and came out a changed man.