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Do women think you’re a slut? Why women reject oversexed men

Unpacking the lies of the manosphere

Madelaine Lucy Hanson
5 min readMay 8, 2024

I’m all for sex positivity, but let’s be real here. You already know this: being extremely promiscuous with very low standards is considered unattractive in the search for a long-term, serious partner. It’s fine for a hook up, but not for potential marriage. I know Andrew Tate has been trying to convince you that women like a man who has slept with thousands of women, but I’m here to warn you: the vast majority of women will think you’re only good for a one night stand.

Not sexy, bro

You’re confusing being ‘attractive to women’ with being oversexed, lacking judgement, being impulsive, being disloyal, and potentially using us for sex. In general terms, a stable, non-desperate woman looking to have a serious boyfriend or partner, instead of just hooking up, will be turned-off by you wanting to immediately have sex with her, or presenting as someone who has sex with absolutely anyone. If you are just looking to hook up, own it baby and be honest, but to be…

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Madelaine Lucy Hanson
Madelaine Lucy Hanson

Written by Madelaine Lucy Hanson

The girl who still knows everything. Opinions entirely my own. Usually. Enquiries: madelaine@madelainehanson.co.uk

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