How to find a girlfriend: even if you’re very, very unattractive

It really is all about building a social life, my loves

I know a man who is, honestly, one of the ugliest men I’ve ever seen. He is unattractive in a way that no one would contest the fact. He is completely hairless apart from very long eyelashes, has very few teeth, enormous ears, and crossed eyes. People stare at him in the street, and not in a good way. He’s also incredibly charming, gentlemanly, funny, warm, and bright, and about to get married for the second time to a very lovely lady who thinks he’s the sexiest man alive. So no matter how hideous you are: you need to stop blaming how you look. It just isn’t true that women are only interested in looks. It is however true that you will need to work on other aspects of yourself, try to engage with women who might be realistically be interested in you, and maybe change up how you try to date and approach women.

Being realistic about who might be interested in you is essential

1. Be realistic about who might feel attracted to you

Be ruthless with yourself: what would a woman find attractive about you? What sort of woman would want to live with you? What kind of woman would enjoy spending time with you? If you’re only going after supermodels, highly desirable women, and the hottest girl in the office, of course you’re going to…