I tried to help someone with BPD. Here’s why I stopped

What do you do when someone’s disorder makes them behave in an evil way?

It was a dark, cold late January day when a message flickered up on my screen as I huddled under the covers. A former work colleague, from some years ago, had reached out. I hadn’t spoken to him in maybe a year, maybe more, as he’d been in an intense relationship with someone our mutual friendship group- myself included- had felt very uncomfortable about. Perhaps it was the huge circles of rouge painted on her cheeks…

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26 year old with an awful lot to say about everything. Opinions entirely my own. Usually. madelaine@madelainehanson.co.uk

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Madelaine Lucy Hanson

Madelaine Lucy Hanson

26 year old with an awful lot to say about everything. Opinions entirely my own. Usually. madelaine@madelainehanson.co.uk

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