I'll do one, for brevity, but I could do a whole article dissecting your comment. "Men don’t really care if a woman isn’t widely desired- women do care," you have no evidence for this. You have no proof. It's an opinion you have of women. You just assume it is true, because in your head, women are still shallow, still cruel, and still obsessed with status. Women still feel alien and scary to you, because you've never been around them. And when women are put off by your energy, it isn't because they don't think other women would be attracted to you, it's because something about you is dark and alarming. That residual hate, fear, loathing. The fact we aren't *quite* human to you: we're still the mean barbies who wouldn't talk to you even though Mommy and Daddy thought you were such a swell guy. We can smell it. That? That's unattractive.