Insane things men have told me were actually ‘my fault’ on here

Not all men. But some men blame us for everything

Men on Medium seem obliged to shout ‘whatabout’ the minute you bring up anything negative about dating them on here. Which isn’t too annoying: until they decide that everything you’re pointing out is unattractive, a turn off, or downright devious, is actually your fault. Here goes: everything that is actually, according to men, my fault.

Yep, why can’t we just give WomanCrusher a chance? But if you do, you should have been more careful

1. A Man Lying To Me About His Height

You’d think, wouldn’t you, that a man choosing to lie to me about his height would be his fault: but no, according to a man on here, it was my fault, because I existed as part of a system where he felt pressured to lie to me, and even selected him on that lie. I’m so, so sorry. So I guess it’s ok if I want to lie about having 38DD breasts, a castle, and a pet dragon?

2. A Man Lying To Me About His Job

You’d also think, given that men have autonomy and know that lying is bad, that this was probably his fault too. But…