Ok I think I understand your confusion.

I'm talking about relationships.

You're talking about fucking.

Yes: men will probably have sex with you, no matter what, unless they are right at the top of the social pyramid, or, like me, sapio/demisexual.

But men who want relationships, and women who want relationships, overwhelmingly end up dating on their level. It's extremely rare to see an 'average' woman or 'average' man with someone much better or much worse than them.