Pedestals and Limerence; why the men I have rejected like me so, so much

No, you aren’t in love with me, you don’t know me

Madelaine Lucy Hanson
4 min readMay 8, 2024

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I’m a very cautious woman. I don’t really like taking a chance on someone new, and I don’t really like opening up and trusting someone with my feelings until I trust them to really like me back. Because when I fall in love, it’s intense. It’s really deep. It takes me months, if not years, to let go of someone I love and fully move on. I know that about myself, so I take my time. But, unfortunately, I’ve noticed a lot of men…

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Madelaine Lucy Hanson

27 year old with an awful lot to say about everything. Opinions entirely my own. Usually.