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We don’t think like you: the big mistakes men make dating women

If you think we think like you, you’ll end up alone

Madelaine Lucy Hanson
9 min readSep 21, 2024

Yes: I am generalizing here. Yes; there are always exceptions to the rule, yes, not all men, yes, not all women, yes your ex wife did XYZ, yes, I can’t possibly speak for all women or all scientific studies. I really don’t care. Here’s some honest, fair advice for you, lads. You deserve to be given a straight shot of feminine honesty. I studied this for my degree, I’ve read hundreds of papers, and studied under the world’s best biological anthropologists, so if you think you know more than I do on this, I doubt it. I did a massive dating debunk with scientific studies but I can’t be bothered to do it again here, so before you write ‘evidence?!’ in the comments, you can read the sources here.

Women just don’t select on appearance: dating studies support this

1. We’re just not that interested in casually hooking up

Louder for the men at the back: most women do not like casual sex and aren’t going to be out looking for it. Casual sex is dangerous, has enormous social stigma, pregnancy risks, and safety risks for us: most women find the idea of sex with a man they do not know, however attractive, shameful or risky. Most men are simply not good enough at sex to be worth risking it for. Getting a reputation for enjoying sex or having it…

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Madelaine Lucy Hanson
Madelaine Lucy Hanson

Written by Madelaine Lucy Hanson

The girl who still knows everything. Opinions entirely my own. Usually. Enquiries: madelaine@madelainehanson.co.uk

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